Avoiding Relationship Apathy

If your girl is thinking of leaving you, relationship apathy may be why. Apathy is one of the most common mistakes men make, resulting in a breakup of a long-term relationship.

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Apathy!

Apathy is defined as a lack of interest in or concern for things that others find moving or exciting. This can relate to how you look, what you say, and how you behave. Apathy is commonly found in the stage of a relationship where the couple is comfortable with each other and mutual feelings have been established.

How many times have you seen your friends get into a routine with their girlfriend, resulting in a boring go-nowhere relationship?

How many times have you simply had your girlfriend over for a movie and not bothered to get dressed up or splash on some cologne?

And the MAJOR ONE....

How many times have you stopped being an exciting challenge and turned into a whimp because the girl is already yours? I can't tell you how many people have had a girl hooked and lost it because they quit their confident dominant role in the relationship.

I'll tell you one thing. None of those relationships are exciting and none of them will last simply because of relationship apathy!

Whether you are seeing your girlfriend of a few years on the weekend or whether you are going out on your 1,000,000th date, treat it as your first. You know....the first date where you were stylishly dressed, had your best cologne on, and had an exciting fun date planned that you couldn't wait to go on.

Don't fall into the trap that tons of inexperienced men, married men, and pros alike have fallen into. It happens to everyone. An old girlfriend of one year would come over a few times a week for a movie and sex, EVERY WEEK. I wouldn't get dressed up, I wouldn't plan anything special, and even though I loved the girl and enjoyed the relationship it eventually came to a close since I didn't keep it exciting and challenging.

Don't let it happen to you!

Stay vigilant and constantly check your looks, words, and behaviors for apathy.

-The Relationship Doctor

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