Confidence

One of the most important rules of attraction, one must have confidence in one's self and one's abilities. Males and females are naturally attracted to people that are sure of themselves. Demonstrate that you trust yourself and believe in yourself and others will take notice and do so too. Doing so will benefit all areas of your life: your job, your hobbies, and your relationships (friends AND girlfriends).

I have found that the most successful and happy men all have faith in themselves and are successful as a result of it. These are the guys that aren't afraid to voice their opinion, speak their mind, ask for that raise, or approach that intelligent pretty girl. You've seen it, I've seen it.

But how does one reach that level of certainty, you may ask. The answer: it's all in your head. Have faith in yourself and who you are, actively improve yourself, and work to become the man you want to be. If you are reading this now, it's a good start.

Most people worry too much about problems that never come to be or worry about what people will think. Whenever I find myself worrying about an issue, odds are that in a month or two it will all be insignificant. Don't let imagined worries prevent you from acting decisively.

Take baby steps and face your fears. Incorporate positive affirmations into your thought patterns (I CAN do it, I WILL voice my belief, I AM an asset to the company, etc.). It isn't easy and can certainly be frustrating, but slowly and surely you will become more sure of yourself.

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The Next Rule of Attraction - Charisma