Body Language

Body language is one of the most subtle, yet important rules of attraction. Do you convey yourself as strong and masculine or timid and feminine? Adjustments in behaviors as small as how you stand and how you move can have huge effects on creating attraction. People will always naturally be more attracted to a guy that stands up straight and remains calm over a nervous guy that stands slouched over.

If you've ever seen Brad Pitt in Fight Club you know what I mean. Brad Pitt conveys a sense of cool and control to those around him. Your goal is to emulate his actions and these physical signs of attraction will draw people in around you. If you convey these signs of attraction people will become more receptive towards you and more open to conversation and bonding so here's how:

DO's
-Stand up straight
-Move slowly
-Talk slowly and clearly
-Take up space
-Be decisive
-Make strong eye contact

DO NOT's
-Act nervous or afraid
-Move or act feminine
-Fidget with objects
-Keep hands in pockets
-Act without purpose

Those tips listed are just a general guide since otherwise I could go on forever. Keep your eyes open to the world around you. Look at others and see what looks strong and masculine versus what doesn't. Constantly analyze your own actions, improve upon them, and watch the difference in how people respond to you.

So you've got attractive male body language...but do you have charisma?

Confident men are attractive!